If I were a man I would always be laughing at myself. Provides a personal perspective as a single adoptive mother. But a female widower would likely need to hide her money, go after men she finds attractive, and hope they like her too but her money will not make her more sexually attractive to a man, just more a target for financial predation. However they do not appear to have used drums. See the Bottle Typing Diagnostic Shapes page for more information on the subject.